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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Consensus

Dictionary.com tells me that the meaning of the word consensus is: "general agreement or concord; harmony".
Today was a day of seeing "consensus" (or maybe sincere consensus seeking) in action, and I am inspired and blessed.. hope you don't mind me sharing a couple of details of my day with you...
There was a Bethany student today who learned some very difficult news from his family at home right before chapel. After the worship singing ended, the student shared the news as a prayer request with the students and faculty gathered for chapel. An invitation was given to come forward and pray for the student, his family, and their situation. It was beautiful to watch the 'consensus' among the students as they instantly responded with one heart of love and care in response to another's difficulties. The whole room flooded forward and encircled the hurting student. The unity; the consensus was moving.
Our church family had a discussion tonight about women in leadership, a topic that can be divisive and contentious. The purpose of the group discussion was to determine consensus on the congregation's thoughts on the subject. What a beautiful idea, to come together to discuss and discern together! There were opportunities and encouragements for every opinion to be heard and there were round table discussions. The harmony was real, and the result was a decision that genuinely represented the conclusions of the group present ... not any one person present.
I'm sharing these because I realized today how profoundly consensus is required in daily life and how rarely it is sought. It takes time to think things through, to consider the others in our lives, and genuinely move in a unity and peace seeking direction. Often decisions are made in the interest of convenience more than consensus.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's so encouraging to hear how God is blessing and encouraging you. I am so inspired by the evidence of obedience in all of your lives!!

Anonymous said...

Consensus can be a beautiful thing. It is too easy to escape into democracy. I teach on the topic on occasion and it always draws stares of confusion of incredulity. Exciting to hear that your community is engaging it.

Peace,
Jamie

Anonymous said...

I'm just sitting here reading this and thinking how complete our relationships would be if we would allow or create consensus giving others the freedom to express themselves - if we would hold back from offering advice that is not well thought out just in order to be heard! Is that a power/pride thing? I read an article recently on "Breathing before you speak" and the results it has on your everyday discussions with family, co-workers... Kel, your post was very inspiring; it makes me feel close to your heart and thoughts even though you are so far away.
Love ya,
Lorrie